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Siapa tau berguna, images yg ada disini gw surf beberapa waktu yang lalu untuk kebutuhan sebuah pekerjaan... enjoy!

Rangginang dmead, bikin terbirit-birit..wkwkwkwkwk..

Iya! Terbirit-birit ke wc takut kecipirit..hehehe



Tapi ngga biså berhenti nih.. Tanggung tinggal 2 bungkus lagi... Nyem nyem nyem..





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Ngemil rangginang dmead..

Siang2 sambil kerja.. Ngemil rangginang pedes2 bikin semangat..tapi wanti2.. Biså mules..hahahaha enyak enyak enyak.. Wataawww!! :D



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Bergantung dengan teknologi bikin bete!!

keseharian gw ngga pernah lepas dari teknologi, entah bekerja yang mempergunakan komputer atau kiriman data dan komunikasi text dengan hape, semua bergantung dengan teknologi..

akan tetapi, sekali teknologi tersebut bermasalah.. otomatis gw langsung bete.. kerjaan ngga kelar.. komunikasi ngerasa ngga lancar(padahal sih sebenernya biasa aja..) dan bisa seharian yg akhirnya malah ngga bisa fokus kerja cuma karena berusaha untuk mengembalikan teknologi tersebut jalan seperti semula dan berfungsi seperti sebelumnya...(padahal ngga perlu-perlu juga..)

sama persis seperti hari ini, mungkin gara-gara pake baju hitam.. seharian eh setengah harian ini kerja ngga maksimal, berusaha memperbaiki blackberry nya yg ngaco karena semua contact dan bbm list nya ilang dengam sangat santainya.. meski sudah dibackup.. tapi tetep ngga langsung automatis jalan lancar jaya.. banyak yg hilang.. dan ada yg error sehingga harus di perbaiki secara manual..

mau balik lagi ke hape jebot, kayagnya ngga rela.. yah sut.. beralih ke ipon lagi aja deh.. biar ngga bisa apa2 tapi masih bisa internetan sama maen game.. hiks!

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Rutin backup blackberry Anda, Sekarang!!!

yup, buat anda pengguna aktif blackberry jangan pernah TIDAK membackup blackberry anda secara rutin.. terlebih bilan anda sangat menggantungkan keseharian bisnis atau pekerjaan anda melalui blackberry seperti saya..

kejadian tidak mengenakan selalu terjadi kapan saja, dari yg blackberrynya hilang, atau contact dan bbm list ter reset dengan sendirinya karena blackberry tanpa bilang-bilang melakukan auto cleaning...

kejadian seperti itu selalu dialami oleh mereka yg mempergunakan blackberry, seperti yg saya alami pagi ini, ketika blackberry saya mati, kemudian restart.. dan semua data contact ter wipeout tanpa permisi... beteee gak sihhhh... tapi karena setiap bulan saya selalu melakukan backup, setidaknya saya masih memiliki data-data lama saya... sisanya tinggal melakukan update yg perlu. (atau apa bila anda merasa telah memasukan data yg cukup penting, anda juga bisa melakukan backup)

dan keuntungan lain melakukan backup, baik secara berkala maupun per kondisi.. bila anda mengganti handheld anda dengan yg lebih canggih, anda tingga melakukan restore dan anda bisa up and running tanpa perlu melakukan penyesuaian lebih jauh, karena secara essential isi dari blackberry anda sudah mirip dengan yg sebelumnya... happay backup!

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Arti kebohongan seorang ibu??

Seorang ibu dlm hidupnya membuat kebohongan.



1. Saat makan, jika makanan kurang, Ia akan memberikan makanan itu kpd anaknya dan berkata, "Cepatlah makan, ibu tdk lapar."



2. Wkt makan, Ia selalu menyisihkan ikan dan daging untuk anaknya dan berkata, "ibu tdk suka daging, makanlah, nak.."



3. Tengah mlm saat dia sdg menjaga anaknya yg sakit, Ia berkata,

"Istirahatlah nak, ibu msh blm ngantuk.."



4. Saat anak sudah tamat sekolah, bekerja, mengirimkan uang untuk ibu. Ia berkata, "Simpanlah untuk keperluanmu nak, ibu masih punya uang."



5. Saat anak sdh sukses, menjemput ibunya utk tinggal di rumah besar, Ia lantas berkata, "Rumah tua kita sangat nyaman, ibu tidak terbiasa tggl di sana."



Saat menjelang tua, ibu sakit keras, anaknya akan menangis, ttp ibu msh bs tersenyum sambil berkata, "Jangan menangis, ibu tidak apa apa." Ini adalah kebohongan terakhir yg dibuat ibu.



Tidak peduli sebrp kaya kita, seberapa dewasanya kita, ibu slalu menganggap kita anak kecilnya, mengkhawatirkan diri kita tp tdk prnh membiarkan kita mengkhawatirkan dirinya.



Smoga smua anak di dunia ini bs menghargai setiap kebohongan seorang ibu....karena beliaulah malaikat nyata yg dikirim TUHAN untuk menjaga kita,ayo kirim kalau kita sayang ibu kita...

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Ibu Kota Selalu Terbuka, Asalkan Tak Modal Nekat ...

BANYAKNYA warga pendatang baru di Jakarta yang membawa sanak keluarga serta sahabat untuk mengadu nasib, semakin memsempit dan mengundang masalah sosial baru di kota terpadat se-Nusantara ini.

Menurut Ketua Umum Forum Betawi Rempug (FBR) Lutfi Hakim, sebagai warga asli Jakarta dirinya tidak keberatan akan datangnya warga pendata

Publish Post

ng baru ke Ibu Kota. Namun, warga pendatang yang ingin mengadu nasib di Jakarta harus ada kemampuan yang lebih dan bisa bersaing dengan warga Jakarta.

"Kalau mereka membawa saudara atau teman ke Jakarta harus punya keterampilan itu enggak ada masalah. Sangat disayangakan apabila dia tidak bisa apa-apa dan itu akan menjadi urusan sosial baru yang akhirnya menjadi pengemis, pengamen, dan jualan di pinggir jalan," ucapnya kepada okezone, belum lama ini.

Bermunculannya lapak-lapak di bantaran kali serta pinggiran rel kereta api membuat ibu kota semakin semeraut, kotor dan kumuh. Seharusnya, kata dia, pemerintah bekerja dari pertama lapak yang ingin dibangun. "Kalau mereka tidak sanggup tinggal dikontrakan, paling membangun rumah dibantaran kali atau di pinggiran rel kereta api. Seharusnya, dari pertama ada lapak-lapak baru muncul satu atau dua lapak langsung dibenahi oleh lurah atau kecamatan setempat," tegas Lutfi.

Pemerintah, kata dia, sangat lemah dalam menanggani masalah sosial ini yang sudah menjadi persoalan klise dari tahun ke tahun. "Seharusnya pemerintah memang harus digalakan menyangkut masalah ini. Kelemahannya pemerintah adalah masalah satu baru mancul dicuekin dan kalau masalah yang lain membesar baru bikin anggaran," ungkapnya.

Masalah yang ada di Jakarta berawal dari yang kecil, namun pemerintah harus bisa menyelesaikan masalah dari tahap yang kecil itu. "Dilakukan dari hal yang terkecil pasti Jakarta akan bersih dan tertata rapih," terangnya.

Sementara itu berdasarkan Instruksi Gubernur Provinsi DKI Jakarta Nomor 56 Tahun 2011 tentang pengendalian arus mudik dan arus balik dalam rangka Idul Fitri 1432 H, seluruh Satuan Kerja Perangkat Daerah  (SKPD) dan Unit Kerja Perangkat Daerah (UKPD) di lingkungan pemerintahan Provinsi DKI Jakarta diinstruksikan untuk melakukan berbagai langkah antisipasi dan koordinasi sesuai dengan tugas pokok dan fungsinya masing-masing.

“Instruksi tersebut telah dilaksanakan dengan sosialisasi perarturan kependudukan yakni mengimbau kepada para pemudik untuk tidak mengajak keluarga ke Jakarta,“ ucap Kepala Dukcapil DKI Jakarta Purba Hutapea kepada okezone di Jakarta, baru-baru ini.

Namun kata Purba, berdasarkan hasil pemantauan di lapangan, terlihat pengurangan dari pemudik yang kembali ke Jakarta dengan mengajak saudara, kenalan, atau tetangganya. “Pemantauan dari setiap stasiun, terminal, dan pelabuhan di DKI Jakarta. Berdasarkan hasil monitoring penduduk Jakarta yang mudik pada H-7 sampai H-1 sejumlah 5.116.368 orang, jumlah itu tidak termasuk penduduk komuter yang berdomisili di kawasan Bodetabek,” tambahnya.

Menurut Purba, jumlah pendatang baru pascalebaran ke DKI Jakarta dalam kerangka urbanisasi menunjukan trend yang menurun dihitung pada tahun 2003 sebanyak 204.830 orang, tahun 2004 sebanyak 190.356 orang, tahun 2005 sebanyak 180.767 orang, tahun 2006 sebanyak 124.427 orang, tahun 2007 sebanyak 109.617 orang, tahun 2008 sebanyak 88.473 orang, tahun 2009 sebanyak 69.554 orang, dan pada 2010 tercatat 59.215 orang.

“Penduduk Jakarta yang telah kembali sampai H+4 sementara berjumlah 2.836.537 orang itu semua belum masuk secara lengkap, diperkirakan pada tahun 2011 akan berkurang sebesar kurang lebih 15 persen, sehingga pendatang baru diperkirakan sebanyak kurang lebih 50.000 orang,” ujarnya.

Penurunan pendatang baru, kata Purba, ke Jakarta dikarenakan sosialisasi peraturan kependudukan yang menunjukan keberhasilan kerjasama antarpemerintah provinsi se-Jawa, Bali, Lampung, NTB, dan NTT khususnya dalam bidang kependudukan, ketenagakerjaan, dan sosial.

“Banyaknya pusat-pusat pertumbuhan baru sebagai akibat pemerataan pembangunan oleh pemerintah pusat, semakin banyaknya aliran transfer dana dari pusat ke daerah dalam bentuk Dana Alokasi Umum (DAU) dan Dana Alokasi Khusus (DAK),” tuturnya.

Untuk pengendalian mobilitas penduduk, lanjut Purba, tetap akan dilakukan Operasi Yustisi Kependudukan (OYK) yang direncanakan serentak di lima wilayah kota administrasi. “Pada tanggal 22 September 2011, 13 Oktober, dan 3 November 2011. Sasarannya terutama pada rumah kos, pemukiman padat sebagai kantong-kantong pendatang baru, daerah-daerah industri rumah tangga, dan apartemen,” tandasnya.

Asing Nett Buy Rp42 Miliar, IHSG Meroket ke Level 3.400

Dengan 263 saham menguat, Indeks Harga Saham Gabungan (IHSG) meroket empat persen lebih, dan berada pada level 3.400.

Pada penutupan perdagangan, Selasa (27/9/2011). IHSG kembali menguat 157,80 poin atau 4,76 persen ke posisi 3.473,94. Sementara, indeks LQ45 naik 30,56 poin ke posisi 604,71. Sedangkan Jakarta Islamic Index (JII) naik 23,02 poin ke 474,48.

Tercatat sebanyak 263 saham tercatat menguat, dengan 26 saham melemah dan 33 saham stagnan. Pada nilai transaksi, sebanyak Rp5,768 tiliun dengan volume transaksi sebesar 5,248 miliar lembar saham diperdagangkan. Selain itu, kepercayaan investor asing nampak makin menguat. Asing, tercatat melakukan nett buy sebesar Rp42,202 miliar.

Sentimen postif dari Eropa, masih memberi sentimen positif pada pergerakan indeks Asia. Tercatat, indeks Hang Seng naik 722,75 poin atau 4,15 persen ke posisi 18.130,55, Indeks Nikkei 225 naik 235,82 poin atau 2,82 persen ke level 8.609,95, dan indeks Straits Times turut menguat 76,30 poin atau 2,87 persen ke level 8.730,61.

Saham-saham yang menguat (top gainers), di antaranya PT Astra International Tbk (ASII) naik Rp3,550 ke Rp60,550, PT Gudang Garam Tbk (GGRM) naik Rp2,650 ke Rp51,650, dan PT United Tractors Tbk (UNTR) naik Rp1.400 ke Rp21.100.

Serta saham-saham yang melemah (top loosers), di antaranya PT Taisho Pharmaceutical Indonesia Tbk (SQBI) turun Rp27,800 menjadi Rp117.000, PT Elang Mahkota Teknologi Tbk (EMTK) turun Rp175 menjadi Rp2.025, dan PT Nippon Indosari Corpindo Tbk (ROTI) turun Rp100 menjadi Rp3.000.

Pada indeks Eropa, tercatat indeks FTSE 100 naik 22,56 poin atau 0,45 persen ke 5.089,37, indeks DAX naik 149 poin atau 2,87 persen ke 5.345,56, dan indeks CAC 40 naik 49,23 poin atau 1,75 persen ke 2.859,34.

Cash is The King....

CUACA di pasar keuangan lagi tidak bersahabat. Pasar saham dan mata uang tengah terkena badai utang Uni Eropa. Imbasnya rupiah dan Indeks Harga Saham Gabungan (IHSG) bertumbangan.

Gejala kekacauan ekonomi sebenarnya sudah tercium pelaku pasar sejak lama. Pasar bursa Eropa dan Amerika sangat labil akibat buntut krisis utang yang dialami oleh Uni Eropa dan belum pulihnya ekonomi Amerika sejak krisis 2007.  Negara Prancis, yang tergabung dalam G20 pun telah menyatakan akan mengatasi masalah tersebut. Tetapi hingga saat ini masih sebatas wacana dan belum sampai pada praktik menuntaskan permasalahan ekonomi.

Sentimen ini menjadi ancaman menakutkan bagi pelaku pasar juga banyak negara. Buktinya, Pemerintah Indonesia pun telah menangkap sinyal ini. Presiden Susilo Bambang Yudhoyono (SBY) langsung menggelar rapat terbatas bidang ekonomi. "Kita harus bersiap diri karena bisa jadi kedalaman dan keluasan dari krisis perekonomian global kali ini bisa lebih besar dibandingkan tiga tahun lalu," ujar SBY, saat membuka rapat di kantornya, Jumat, 23 September.

Bukti ketakutan lainnya adalah kejatuhan IHSG dan rupiah. IHSG pada Kamis 22 September ditutup melemah tajam 328,351 poin (8,89 persen) ke level 3.369,143. Penurunan indeks saham di Bursa Efek Indonesia (BEI) bahkan tercatat sebagai yang paling parah di Asia. Investor asing melakukan penjualan bersih sebesar Rp825,965 miliar.

Gejala itu merupakan bentuk nyata sikap pelaku pasar dalam menghadapi situasi. Mereka mengamankan portofolionya, dan membutuhkan uang di tengah minimnya ketersediaan uang tunai.

Tapi sebagai pelaku pasar ada baiknya untuk tetap tenang dan tidak latah terhadap cuaca ekonomi di belahan benua lain. Secara fundamental ekonomi di negeri ini masih baik. Ekonomi Indonesia masih positif, inflasi masih dalam arena pergerakan yang aman. Perdagangan dalam negeri pun masih bisa diandalkan menjadi tameng keamanan ekonomi. 

Dalam menghadapi karut marut pasar, pelaku pasar harus tidak panik. Jangan sampai cash is the king menguasai kebijakan portofolio Anda.

What is hypersexuality?

Hypersexuality is referred to as a sexual addiction disorder. It is a constant sexual urge, fantasies or behavior in which a person desires. Sexual addiction represents a life-threatening obsession-a pattern of out-of-control sexual behavior with serious physical, emotional and legal consequences (Cooper and Lebo, 2001). DSM-V diagnosis is often questioned whether it could be used to identify sexual addicts. Most treatments for sex addicts are formulated as a system. The major components of treatment: behavioural symptom management, individual psychotherapy, therapeutic group experience, and pharmacotherapy (Goodman, 1993).

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History

Kafft-Ebbing, a western European sexologist in the 19th century, was the one who described the first case of abnormally increased sexual desire which he named ‘hyperesthesia sexual’, but it wasn’t until the mid-1970’s that the concept of sexual addiction was introduced by a member of Boston Alcoholics Anonymous group. Kinsey and his colleagues then developed the concept of total sexual outlet (TSO), the total number of orgasms achieved by any combination of sexual outlets (masturbation, sexual intercourse) per week. Kafka et al then proposed that hypersexual behavior could be characterized by TSOs of at least seven times a week (Garcia and Thibaut, 2010).
The first notion of excessive non-paraphlic sexual behavior as an addict was proposed by Orford, in 1978, describing it as "maladaptive pattern of use and impaired control over a behavior with associated adverse consequences" . This condition was popularized by Cain’s book ‘Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction’ as a psychopathological condition. Other authors have developed the sexual addiction concept but there is considerable controversy that surrounds the issue of how it should be classified. Even the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) has changed and revised multiple times as to which section/definition best suits "sexual addiction" (Kafka, 2010).

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Causes

The main cause for sexual addictions is dysfunctional family attachment. A dysfunctional attachment with the major caregiver during child-rearing is a characteristic for both substance and sexual addicts. Earle and Crow identified negative childhood experiences such as neglect, abuse or abandonment as probable related factors in sexual addiction, because with these experiences, the sex addicts fail to develop appropriate skills for communicating with others. A lack of intimacy or fear of it is often the result of dysfunctional role-modeling by parents or caregivers. Murry Bowen and social learning theorists assert that dysfunctional sexual attitudes and behaviors are learned in early family life.
Coleman-Kennedy and Padley (2002) adapted Kasl’s model to demonstrate that childhood victimization that occurs as a result of physical, emotional or sexual abuse/neglect, results in violations of one’s person-hood. Subsequently, a negative belief system develops in the child, which develops into a negative operational belief in adulthood. Operational beliefs lead to action such as codependency and sexual addiction, which provides an escape for negative core beliefs.

(Coleman-Kennedy and Padley, 2002).
Other causes for sexual addiction may be genes, sexual trauma or injury. Many sex addicts identify sex as a means to have power over another person. That is why people with sexual trauma/abuse would become an addict to feel as though they have power over others to give them the illusion that they would not get hurt (Garcia and Thibaut, 2010).

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Symptoms

Hypersexual activity is associated with individuals who are experiencing an overpowering desire for a high or escape. Often the engagement in such activity provides satisfaction, however if this activity becomes excessive, the satisfaction of the experience diminishes. Often the individual will experience sexually arousing fantasies and urges which consume thought and seemingly regular sexual activity will increase in intensity and in duration over a period of 6 months. The individual may also find these obsessions interfere with normal social activities, avoiding and postponing commitments both at work and in their social lives. Hypersexual activity is often found in correlation with extensive drug addiction, and an individual’s inability to form intimate and loving relationships.
As of 2010 “there is no current specific, separate, named diagnosis for hypersexuality,” (Kaplan, 2010) however, a complete definition will be added to the DSM-V to be released in 2013. This definition will include:
(Kafka, 2009)

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Sexual Addiction Screening Test

The Sexual Addiction Screening Test, or SAST, was developed in 1988 and was described as an assessment tool for clinicians who had patients that exerted sexually compulsive behaviours. It was comprised of 25 questions created to uncover any sexual maladies within men. Although quite valid and reliable for heterosexual men, it proved to be invalid and unreliable for women and homosexual men.
The SAST is now comprised of 45 questions and has since been revised to accommodate women as well as homosexual men (Carnes, Green, Carnes, 2010).

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Treatment

There are multiple kinds of treatment that are implemented on hypersexuality patients. The most common treatments used are psychodynamic/cognitive therapy, self-help program and therapeutic group experience. These treatments comply with the same twelve step process that is also similar to Alcoholics Anonymous. The International Service Organization of SAA, Inc. (2007) lists the twelve steps from Sex Addicts Anonymous:

1. We admitted we were powerless over addictive sexual behavior - that our lives had become unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that a Power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.
3. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood God.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, to ourselves, and to another human being the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. Humbly asked God to remove our shortcomings.
8. Made a list of all persons we had harmed and became willing to make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people wherever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong promptly admitted it.
11. Sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God as we understood God, praying only for :knowledge of God's will for us and the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual awakening as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to other sex addicts and to practice these principles in our lives.

The difference is in Step One: the sexual addict admits powerlessness over sexual addiction, instead of alcohol. Relapse prevention is implemented during the treatment process. Patients need to recognize their arousal triggers and implement three primary prevention components: risk-recognition, urge-coping, and slip-handling. Risk-recognition teaches sex addicts to be aware of their arousal behavior and to recognize them before they are not able to manage their urges. Self-monitoring helps sex addicts manage their urges by, for example, keeping a daily dairy. Critical component of risk recognition is identification of early warning signs . Urge coping uses consistent behavioural and cognitive strategies to help the sex addict manage their urges without lapsing(Goodman, 1993).
Behavioural strategies include:

1. Avoidance of identified risk factors
2. Specific protective responses when exposed to risk factors

These strategies are most effective when planned ahead of time.

Cognitive strategies include:

1. Acceptance of urges and fantasies of engaging in the behavior as natural accompaniments of recovery
2. Recognition that urges are feelings that will pass
3. Review of the benefits of abstinence and the potential negative consequences of engaging in symptomatic behavior

These strategies are most effective when verbalized. Slip handling skills are taught to sex addicts to help prevent relapse once a slip has occurred. A slip represents a risk situation for which the individual had not yet developed an appropriate coping strategy . It is an opportunity to learn and to improve therapeutic programing. The sooner an intervention is applied onto the slip, the less likely a relapse occurs (Goodman, 1993).

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References

Carnes, Patrick, Green, Bradley and Carnes, Stefanie (2010). The Same Yet Different: Refocusing the Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST) to Reflect Orientation and Gender. Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, 17, 7-30. Retrieved March 5, 2011, from the PsychINFO database.

Carnes, Green and Carnes' journal The Same Yet Different: Refocusing the Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST) to Reflect Orientation and Gender gives the reader insight on how sexual addictions and hypersexuality is currently diagnosed. It allows the reader to formulate an idea of what the SAST was in its primal stages and how it has developed into a system of diagnosis used by medical practitioners. The criteria of questions in reflected in the appendix of the journal, as well as the results of questions answered.

Coleman-Kennedy, Carol and Pendley, Amanda (2002) Assessment and Diagnosis of Sexual Addiction. Journal of the American Psychiatric Nurses Association, 8(5), 143-151. Retrieved March 1 2011, from the PsychInfo database.

Carol Coleman-Kennedy, RN, CS, PMH-NP, MSN is an advanced practice nurse at Dignity Geropsychiatry, Inc, and a clinical instructor at the University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences- School of nursing in Little Rock, Arkansas. Amanda Pendley, RN, CS, PMH-NP, MSN, is an advanced practice nurst at Trover Foundation Center for Behavioural Health in Madisonville, Kentucky, and a clinical instructor at Vanderbilt University School of Nursing in Nashville, Tennessee. This article is intended for nurses working in psychiatric hospitals and what they will need to understand about the sex addicts that enter the institution. This article was intended for an understanding of how sexual addiction is identified and treated. This work compared to the other work cited has a more in-depth analysis on the vary of causes to sexual addiction. This work conveys the importance of how most sex addicts are results of childhood experiences.

Cooper, M., and Lebo, R. A. (2001). Assessment and Treatment of Sexual Compulsivity. Journal of Social Work Practice in the Addictions, 1 (2), 61 - 74. Retrieved March 5, 2011, from the PsychINFO database.

The author Marlene Cooper is a PhD Associate Professor from Forham University and Graduate School of Social Service. Robert A. Lebo is a researcher for the Covenant House. The authors strongly based this article towards social workers that work with clients who compulsively act-out sexually. This work provides a valuable concept of the disorder and provides useful form's of treatment for sex addicts.

Garcia, Frederico Duarte and Thibaut, Florence ( 2010). Sexual Addictions. The American Journal of Drug and Alcohol Abuse, 36(5), 254-260. Retrieved March 1 2011, from the PsychInfo database.

Frederico Duarte Garcia is from the Rouen University Hospital and Biomedical Research Institute with a MD. Florence Thibaut is from the Rouen University Hospital and is a psychiatric researcher with a M.D. and Ph.D. This article is intended to define sexual addiction, where the roots of it came from, and how it has evolved overtime. This article also contains the treatment and possible definitions of sexual addiction. "Sexual Addictions" focuses on the history as well as possible treatments and definition, unlike the other sources that were used.

Goodman, A. (1993). Diagnosis and treatment of sexual addiction. Journal of Sex & Martial Therapy, 19 (3), 225-251. Retrieved March 5, 2011, from the PsychINFO database.

The author is a director of the Minnesota Institute of Psychiatry. The intended audience are for people who are interested in Sex and Marital Therapy. This work is similar to M.Cooper and R.A Lebo, "Assessment and Treatment of Sexual Compulsivity" article because it states the assessment and treatment process for hypersexuality disorder. The article provides diagnoses and treatments of sexual addiction by defining the term "sexual addiction" and treatments that are implemented towards the patients.

International Service Organization of SAA, Inc. (2007). Sex Addicts Anonymous. (International Service Organization of SAA, Inc.) Retrieved March 30, 2011, from http://www.sexaa.org/OurProgram/TheTwelveSteps/.

Kafka, Martin P. (2009). Hypersexual Disorder: A Proposed Diagnosis for DSM-V. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 39, 377-400. Retrieved March 23, 2011, from PsychInfo database.

This journal by Martin P. Kafka introduces the idea of Hypersexual Disorder being proposed as a new psychiatric disorder for consideration in the Sexual Disorders section of the DSM-V. Kafka describes the diagnosis criteria for Hypersexual Disorder as well as empirical evidence obtained in non-clinical samples. The journal also describes in detail what behaviours (or DSM specifiers) are exactly affected when it comes to Hypersexual Disorder. This journal introduces the reader to many new and common terms in the field of research on Hypersexual Disorder. Kafka states historical discourses in regards to hypersexual disorder and how exactly they aid in the justification of adding hypersexual disorder to the DSM-V.

Kafka, Martin P.( 2010). "What is Sexual Addiction?" A response to Stephen Levine. Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, 36:3, 276-281. Retrieved March 1 2011, from the PsychInfo database.

Martin P. Kafka is from the Department of Psychiatry from the Harvard Medical school in Boston , USA, his focus of this article is towards Dr. Levine who promoted the question ' What is sexual addiction?'. The article compared to the other ones focused solely on the symptoms of sexual addiction providing a brief history as to when the reported case of sexual addiction. Kafka's article helped to reinforce the accuracy towards the history of sexual addiction.

Kaplan, M. S., and Krueger, R. B. (2010). Diagnosis, Assessment, and Treatment of Hypersexuality. Journal of Sex Research, 47(2/3), 181-198. Retrieved March 5, 2011, from the PsychINFO database

Published in the Journal of Sex Research, The Society for the Scientific Study of Sexuality, this article seeks to review the current methods and treatment for assessing Hypersexuality. Meg S. Kaplan and Richard B. Krueger from the New York State Psychiatric Institute work to outline the current evidence to support Hypersexuality as an addiction and provide analysis of studies and research in the field. Previously, Hypersexuality has been defined as a “sexual disorder not otherwise specified (NOS).” Given within the article is the proposed revisal to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) and dialogue around the controversy of adding this article in the DSM to be released in 2013.

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Impact of drugs on hypersexuality

The relationship between cocaine and amphetamine drug use and sexual activity has been studied in individuals and in the gay and homeless communities. These drugs are seen to enhance sexual experience and increase an individual’s perception of themselves. For these reasons, often hypersexual activity is seen as a result of such drug dependence.

A woman is shown with cocaine

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Reasons for Drug Use

Individuals subject to highly traumatic events throughout their lives will often experience a sense of loss of personal control and the ability to trust people in their lives. As a result of such life experience, these individuals use drugs in order to gain self-esteem, mask internal feelings of guilt and shame and an overall feeling of helplessness. Through the use of drugs a certain buffer is established between the individual’s point of view and the real world, and they are able to engage in sexual activity with immense amount of courage and without notice of the societal and cultural hindrances that may otherwise exist.

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Cocaine/Crack Cocaine

Cocaine is a drug which produces alertness and a heightened sense of well-being. Individuals using the drug have more energy and experience a surge of positive emotion that is best experienced through the interaction of other people. Anxiety of social obligation and interaction is also lowered. For these reasons, the use of cocaine in correlation with hypersexual activity is very common as individuals can engage in sexual acts without feelings of guilt or shame, while improving their “high” through the sexual experience.

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Crystal Methamphetamine

Crystal Methamphetamine (a.k.a. Meth) is a drug which increases sensory feeling and energy, lowering a need for sleep. Individuals using methamphetamine feel an immense amount of confidence and euphoria which elevates sex drive and mood. Use of crystal methamphetamine often decreases boredom and feelings of loneliness. The use of crystal Methamphetamine promotes hypersexual activity as individuals who lack sexual confidence or esteem are able to engage in sexual acts without bounds, their sexual experience is also greatly enhanced.

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Correlation of Drug Addiction and Hypersexual Activity

An individual who is addicted to drugs such as crack cocaine and methamphetamine is often subject to a culture and environment which promotes sexual activity, leading to hypersexual behaviour. The individuals who engage in such a lifestyle are often using drugs to combat intense feelings of worthlessness and self loathing. It is found that the correlation between drugs and hypersexual activity is dependent on drug use as “It cannot be predicted that sexually compulsive behaviour will persist in the context of abstinence from drugs – it often does not.” (Guss and Drescher, 2000). As an individual removes his drug use from his lifestyle, the engagement in such hypersexual behaviour is often extinguished as well. However, it is seen that when an individual works towards toward sobriety from drug use, he must also remain abstinent. Jeffrey R. Guss describes this as “in early sobriety sexual behaviour can sometimes trigger intense craving [for the drug]” (Guss and Drescher, 2000). Although drug use and sexuality are seemingly separate, their correlation in managing addiction is quite evident.

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References

Guss, Jeffrey R., Drescher, Jack (2000). Sex Like You Can't Even Imagine: "Crystal," Crack and Gay Men. Addictions in the gay and lesbian community., 3, 105-122. Retrieved March 23, 2011, from the PsychInfo database.

Dr. Jeffrey Gus is an academic from New York University and is a candidate to become a Clinical Assistant professor at New York University and runs his own private practice. He has completed this research study to understand sex addiction and the relation to drug use after observing many patients spending excessive amounts of money on sexual endeavours. He provides an assessment and analysis of the proposed correlation between both drug use and Hypersexuality and describes treatment methods. Although this study pertains to the gay community, much of the information is highly relatable to the general population as he describes sexual tendency and drug use through the sub culture.

McGill, Ken (2003). The development of an integrated treatment program for the sexually addicted homeless population in rescue missions. Dissertation Abstracts International: Section B: The Sciences and Engineering, 64(6-B), 2929. Retrieved March 29, 2011, from the PsychInfo database

This paper has been written for use in requirements of Ken McGill and his pursuit of his Doctor of Psychology. Ken McGill became heavily involved in this research with great concern for individuals in rescue missions. This thesis seeks to review the relationship between homelessness, cocaine addiction and sexual activity. McGill acknowledges that ‘sex addictions’ has not yet been defined wholly in the psychological community, but uses the basic understanding of sex addiction in application through his research. The thesis outlines the reasons for cocaine use throughout the homeless community, attributing general availability of the drug to its widespread use. Additionally, the thesis examine the resultant issues of hypersexual activity such as the spread of sexually transmitted diseases and the ongoing trauma these individuals face.

Samenow, Charles P. and Finlayson, A. J. Reid (2010). A Psychiatrist's Approach to a Case of Problematic Sexual Behavior, Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity, 17:3, 173 - 184. Retrieved March 23, 2011, from PsychInfo database

Charles P. Samenow of Washington University and A.J. Reid Finlayson of Vanderbilt University are psychiatrists trying to uncover the causes of ‘problematic sexual behaviour’ through a case study of a man titled ‘Glen”. This editorial reviews the lifestyle and personal events in Glen’s life to uncover the causes of his hypersexual behaviour accompanied by his various drug addictions and severe depression. Glen’s history of alcohol and drug abuse and Axis I mood disorder are described as important factors in his hypersexual behaviour. However, the editorial also describes the sexual abuse Glen suffered as a child from trusted individuals. The editorial postulates that Glen is trying to overcome is previous traumas through drug use and the enactment of the various acts that were wrongfully done to him in the past. Through Glen’s example, the authors’ purpose is to demonstrate clinical procedure and practice for assessing hypersexual behaviour.

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Hypersexuality in the media

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Celebrity cases

In recent years, many celebrities in the forefront of society have come out and admitted to sexual addiction/hypersexuality, most notably Tiger Woods and Jesse James.

Tiger Woods & Elin Nordegren

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Tiger Woods

In 2009, Tiger Woods was exposed of his marital infidelities in a very public way. Woods fled his Orlando home after his wife Elin Nordegren found out about his adultery and ended up getting into an accident which badly damaged his car, his body, and his career. It was later found out that Woods was not faithful to his wife and multiple women came forth and discussed their affairs with the golfer. It was later found out that Woods was suffering from multiple addictions including drug and sexual addictions. In order to better himself, his marriage and as well as his public image, Woods checked into Sexual Rehabilitation in order to regain his control and be able to function in society without the use of drugs/sex (CBS, 2009).

Jesse James & Sandra Bullock

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Jesse James

In 2010, scandal broke of Jesse James and his infidelities to actress Sandra Bullock. Multiple women came out detailing their affairs with James, crushing Bullock. After James' multiple attempts to reconcile the marriage, Bullock filed for divorce. James immediately entered a centre for sexual rehabilitation much like Woods, to reconstruct his public image and deal with the addictions he felt needed to be removed from his life (ABC News, 2010).

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Criminal cases

Over the past 20 years, there have been many police cases that have involved sex addicts and rapists, however, two cases in particular stand above them all. The cases of Paul Bernardo and Jeffrey Dahmer are both all extremely horrendous and immoral stories, but are appropriate to show, in order to explain how sex addicts can elevate from simple fantasies to murder.

Paul Bernardo

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Paul Bernardo

Paul Bernardo was born August 27, 1964 in Toronto, Ontario as a result of an affair his mother was currently in. His childhood seemed normal until 1975 when his dad, Kenneth Bernardo was charged with child molestation (Stone, 2010). He managed to continue through elementary and secondary school and ended up at University of Toronto, Scarborough. According to Stephen Williams (1998), it was during the time he attended University of Toronto that he developed “dark sexual fantasies” which eventually led him to compile his long list of rapes and murders. In 1987, he met Karla Holmolka a woman who not only became his wife (in 1991) but also became his accomplice in the sexual assaults and murders of three teenage girls. One of the girls was Karla’s little sister Tammy (Pardue, 2007). Paul Bernardo was known to stalk young women either at bus stops or departing from the bus late at night. He would then follow them and sexually assault them. He used this method from his start in 1987 to when he was arrested in 1993. After being arrested he was not put on trial until 1995 for the murders of the other two teenage girls: Kirsten French and Leslie Mahaffy. On September 1, 1995 Bernardo was convicted of two first degree murders and two aggravated sexual assaults sentencing him to 25 years in prison (Williams, 1998). Paul Bernardo also admitted to raping an additional 10 women on top of the 15 the police had already suspected tallying an appalling 25 suspected rapes. He was truly a sex addict who let his sexual fantasies escalate to an extreme level.

Jeffrey Dahmer

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Jeffrey Dahmer

Jeffrey Lionel Dahmer a.k.a “The Milwaukee Monster“ was born May 21, 1960 in West Allis, Wisconsin . He was one of America’s most ruthless sex offenders and a serial killer. Dahmer seemed to have a regular childhood but he grew increasingly withdrawn and uncommunicative between the ages 10-15, showing little interest in hobbies or social interaction (A&E, 1996). Also in his adolescence, he fantasized about homosexual scenarios and was struggling with his sexual identity. These fantasies played a critical role in his sexual crimes. In the summer of 1978, at the tender age of 18, Jeffrey claimed his first life when he invited over a hitchhiker over to his father’s house who he planned on having sex with. However, after the hitchhiker refused to have sex with him, Jeffrey became violent and bludgeoned the man to death. After his first murder, Dahmer did not kill for another 9 years, but in-between he frequently visited gay bathhouses where he would have consensual and non-consensual intercourse, whichever sustained his sexual addiction (Pardue, 2007). In 1987, he killed his second victim who was sexually assaulted before murdered. After killing his second victim Dahmer begin to sexually assault and kill more and more frequently until his arrest in 1991. Between the years 1987-1991 the ruthless savage had murdered at least 16 people, killing almost every week right before he was arrested. Fortunately, Jeffrey Dahmer was convicted of fifteen counts of murder and sentenced to fifteen life sentences in 1992, after the court decided that he was sane and not insane (A&E, 1996) This gives reason to believe that Dahmer killed the men of his own free will, however it was his sexual desires and needs that led him to rape and murder.

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References

A & E (1996). Jeffrey Dahmer [Video file]. Video posed to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WaCdPKdAJg8

A&E has compiled an accurate sequence of events that took place in Jeffrey Dahmers life from when he was a child up until his murder in jail. This interview gives the information on his murder victims including who they were and the location/nature of their deaths. Also, this interview shows that Jeffrey Dahmer's sexual compulsion played a key role in his string of sexual assaults and homicides.

ABC News (2010). Jesse James Speaks Out: Exclusive Nightline Interview. Video posted to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GVzkMLv1oNI.

The interview conducted by ABC News delves into the adultery and sexual addiction of Jesse James. It allows the viewer to gain knowledge of what a sexual addict/hypersexual person suffers from as well as reasoning behind their addictions.

CBS. (2009). Tiger Woods May Be A Sex Addict [Video file]. Video posted to http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cAXDL23NfUY.

The interview conducted by CBS describes the addictions and infidelities of Tiger Woods. It describes the idea of what a sexual addiction is, as well as sexual rehabilitation centres that have been created in order to aid those who are suffering from the addiction.

Pardue, Angela & Arrigo, Bruce A. (2010). Power, Anger, and Sadistic Rapists: Towards a differentiated model of offender personality. International Journal of Offender Therapy and Comparative Criminology, 52(4), 378-400. Retrieved March 23, 2011, from the PsychInfo database

This is a sophisticated article that talk about three different types of rapists and about the typical characteristics of a rapist. The authors focus on power rapists, anger rapists and sadistic rapists. Both Jeffrey Dahmer and Paul Bernardo are found in this article. Paul Bernardo is classified as a anger-retaliatory rapists by the FBI in 1988. Jeffrey Dahmer is classified as a sexual sadistic rapist. Authors go on to give details of how they are classified by analyzing specific characteristics of the individual.

Stone, Micheal H. (2010). Sexual Sadism: a Portrait of evil. Journal of the American Academy of Psychoanalysis & Dynamic Psychiatry. Special Issue: Sex and psychodynamic psychiatry, 38(1), 153-157. Retrieved March 17, 2011, from the PsychInfo database

Stone's article of sexual sadism gives the reader a brief introduction to sexual disorders currently mentioned in the DSM. It lets the reader know of sexual fantasies and the like, and the turning point when these aforesaid fantasies turn into nightmares for the victims. The article makes mention of serial killers and the way they achieve their orgasms by murdering their victims. This leads to an addiction of murdering as well as release when murdering. The killer must kill again to achieve an orgasm. Karla Homolka and Paul Bernardo are examples used by Stone. This article gives more detailed insight of the connection of sexual addiction to murdering.

Williams, Stephen (1998). Invisible darkness : the strange case of Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka. New York, NY: Bantam Books.

William's book Invisible darkness: The strange case of Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka gives the reader a background story of both Bernardo and Homolka from their childhoods. It mentions both lives growing up, to the point of when they met. The book makes great mention of how Bernardo and Homolka both started to kill with the first victim of Homolka's sister, Tammy. It lets the reader see the sexual addictions of both Bernardo and Homolka. It also shows the reader the sentencing and imprisonment of both, with the release of Homolka.

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A proposed diagnosis for the DSM-V

A stack of various editions of the DSM

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, or the DSM, is the standard by which mental health professionals discover and diagnose mental disorders in patients. Although the DSM has gone through many editions and revisions, the current edition is the DSM-IV-TR which was released in 2000. With each edition, the DSM includes and removes certain "disorders", the most recent removal being homosexuality as it is no longer considered to be a mental disorder. The DSM-V is being set for release in 2013. All findings and classifications within all editions of the DSM are based on empirical evidence (American Psychiatry Association, 2000).

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What does the DSM consider a mental disorder?

According to the American Psychiatry Association (2000), there are many controversies when trying to define "Mental Disorder". One major issue is that there is no concrete operational definition that defines all aspects of a mental disorder. For example, symptom presentation, physiological norm, etiology, etc. Many consider mental disorders to be concepts such as: statistical deviation, etiology, distress, irrationality, etc.
According to the DSM-IV, a mental disorder is a behavioural or psychological syndrome that occurs in an individual that is affiliated to distress or disability, or with a highly increased risk of death, pain, disability, or loss of freedom.

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Why should hypersexuality be added to the DSM-V?

As previously stated in the previous section, hypersexuality is associated with factors prevalent in the definition of a mental disorder. Hypersexuality is associated with considerable personal distress and adverse consequences such as sexually transmitted infections, unwanted or unplanned pregnancies, work or educational impairment and other physical and mental anguishes.
The following is a list of proposed diagnostic criteria for Hypersexual Disorder:
(Kafka, 2009).
The selected criteria provides an operational definition of Hypersexual Disorder.

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References

American Psychiatric Association (2000). Definition of Mental Disorder. Diagnostic and statistical manual of mental disorders, (4th ed., text revision). Retrieved March 25, 2011, from York University eResources database.

The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders is the main means for mental health workers to assess a patient's "disorder". This section of the DSM-IV-TR informs the reader of what the American Psychiatric Association believes to consider a mental disorder. It also gives historical background of how the APA came to agree on the definition. This article greatly aids in defining what a mental disorder is considered and the factors that aid in defining them. This article gives a very basic skeleton in regards to how hypersexual disorders can be proven to be a mental disorder.

Kafka, M.P. (2009). Hypersexual Disorder: A Proposed Diagnosis for DSM-V. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 39, 377-400. Retrieved March 23, 2011, from PsychInfo database.

This journal by Martin P. Kafka introduces the idea of Hypersexual Disorder being proposed as a new psychiatric disorder for consideration in the Sexual Disorders section of the DSM-V. Kafka describes the diagnosis criteria for Hypersexual Disorder as well as empirical evidence obtained in non-clinical samples. The journal also describes in detail what behaviours (or DSM specifiers) are exactly affected when it comes to Hypersexual Disorder. This journal introduces the reader to many new and common terms in the field of research on Hypersexual Disorder. Kafka states historical discourses in regards to hypersexual disorder and how exactly they aid in the justification of adding hypersexual disorder to the DSM-V.

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Conclusion

To conclude our research on Hypersexual Disorder our group has provided the definition of Hypersexuality, history, symptoms, the impact, media and criminal cases and treatment. The thought of whether Hypersexual is considered as a diagnosis for the DSM-V is still undecided. Hypersexual Disorder has been primarily characterized as compulsive, impulsive, a behavioral addiction or a sexual desire disorder. There is a proposal that Hypersexual Disorder relates to the DSM-V diagnostic criteria, and should be included in the DSM-V to further address the possibility of individuals suffering from this disorder. With a recognized, adequate classification and diagnosis of this disorder practitioners will be better equipped to help these individuals overcome their possible sex addiction. However, it has been argued that there were "insufficient data" and these conditions have been relegated to Sexual Disorders Not Otherwise Specified (Kafka, 2009). With insufficient and incomplete data to support the claims of this disorder, it may be detrimental to the diagnosis and treatment of patients as the appendix for diagnosis is not entirely accurate. In the possibility of misdiagnosis and possible mistreatment, the integrity of health practice could be affected. Through research and analysis of this topic, we believe that Hypersexuality Disorder should be included in the DSM-V as there is a vast amount of data and research available which proves the legitimacy of Hypersexuality Disorder and its classification as an addiction.

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References

Kafka, Martin P. (2009). Hypersexual Disorder: A Proposed Diagnosis for DSM-V. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 39, 377-400. Retrieved March 23, 2011, from PsychInfo database.

This journal by Martin P. Kafka introduces the idea of Hypersexual Disorder being proposed as a new psychiatric disorder for consideration in the Sexual Disorders section of the DSM-V. Kafka describes the diagnosis criteria for Hypersexual Disorder as well as empirical evidence obtained in non-clinical samples. The journal also describes in detail what behaviours (or DSM specifiers) are exactly affected when it comes to Hypersexual Disorder. This journal introduces the reader to many new and common terms in the field of research on Hypersexual Disorder. Kafka states historical discourses in regards to hypersexual disorder and how exactly they aid in the justification of adding hypersexual disorder to the DSM-V.

Soal Seks, Penduduk Indonesia Masih Munafik

Usaha untuk memberikan informasi tentang kesehatan reproduksi secara utuh masih mengalami banyak hambatan. Salah satunya terkait sikap dan perilaku masyarakat. “Tidak usahlah munafik,” ujar Kepala Badan Kependudukan dan Keluarga Berencana Dr. dr. Sugiri Syarif ketika ditanya tentang usaha penyebaran pendidikan seks usai konferensi acara peringatan hari Kontrasepsi Sedunia di Hotel Grand Melia, Senin 26 September 2011.


Dia pun mengiyakan ketika disinggung tingginya minat masyarakat mencari informasi dan berita di media Internet tentang hal ini. Dia mengakui pendidikan seks belum bisa diterapkan secara terbuka. Sebagian masyarakat masih keberatan.

“Coba Anda memberi penjelasan secara terbuka, langsung diprotes. Hambatannya normatif,” ujar dia. Sugiri mengatakan jika masyarakat, terutama anak muda, tidak mendapatkan informasi kesehatan reproduksi yang benar akan berpotensi meningkatkan seks bebas dan kehamilan yang tidak diinginkan. Lebih parah lagi akan meningkatkan angka aborsi dan kematian.

Agar tidak terlalu frontal, Badan Koordinasi Keluarga Berencana Nasional telah menjalankan program pendidikan reproduksi melalui jalur pendidikan. Mereka membentuk Pusat Konsultasi Remaja dan Mahasiswa. Saat ini tak kurang dari 4.900 pusat konsultasi telah terbentuk.

“Yang bicara dari kelompok mereka sendiri, agar mereka terhindar dari kehamilan yang tak diinginkan,” ujarnya. Selain dari kelompok remaja, mereka juga berusaha menembus penyebaran informasi ini melalui program bina keluarga. Para orang tua yang mempunyai anak remaja diberi pengetahuan untuk menginformasikan ke anak-anaknya.

DIAN YULIASTUTI

Alasan Diplomat Indonesia Menunggak Tilang Parkir di New York

Menteri Luar Negeri Triyono Wibowo menyebutkan masalah utama pembengkakan beban denda akibat melanggar ketentuan parkir bagi perwakilan Indonesia di New York disebabkan keterbatasan tempat parkir bagi para diplomat. "Ini bukan soal baru, ini sudah terjadi sejak lama," kata Triyono di Hotel Bidakara, Selasa, 27 September 2011.


Dia mencontohkan, kantor perwakilan Indonesia di New York hanya mendapatkan satu jatah parkir. Padahal, ada 35 pejabat diplomatik di kota itu. Begitu pula pejabat diplomatik negara lain. Di kota ini, Indonesia memiliki dua kantor perwakilan, yakni Konsulat Jenderal dan Kantor Perwakilan Tetap Republik Indonesia untuk Perserikatan Bangsa-Bangsa.

Pemerintah Kota New York mengeluhkan besarnya tunggakan denda tilang parkir sejumlah diplomat dari sejumlah negara. Mesir menjadi negara paling besar yang memiliki utang parkir, yakni USD1,9 juta, lalu diikuti Nigeria USD1 juta. Adapun Indonesia tercatat pada urutan ketiga dengan tunggakan sebesar US$ 750 ribu atau sekitar Rp 6,7 miliar. Departemen Keuangan Pemerintah Kota New York mengatakan, sampai akhir Juli 2011, total denda tilang parkir mencapai USD 16,7 juta.

Saat ini, kata Triyono, Kantor Perwakilan Komunitas Diplomat Asing (Hospitality Community) di New York tengah mencari solusi atas masalah perparkiran para diplomat ini. Keputusan apakah pemerintah Indonesia akan memenuhi pembayaran tunggakan tergantung hasil pembicaraan kantor perwakilan dengan pemerintah New York. "Biar mereka yang menyelesaikan, nanti kami lihat saja," ujarnya.

Ikhwal besarnya tagihan itu, Triyono menyebutkan itu berasal dari akumulasi jumlah tagihan selama bertahun-tahun. Tagihan berasal dari denda tilang karena pejabat diplomat memarkir mobilnya melebihi batas waktu dan beberapa tagihan karena parkir tidak di tempat yang dibolehkan.

Selain itu, dia juga mendesak pemerintah New York untuk memperbaiki layanan fasilitas parkir, paling tidak menambah kapasitas parkir untuk para diplomat.

Orang Aceh penyumbang emas Monas

Ternyata 38 kg emas yang dipajang di puncak tugu Monumen Nasional (Monas) Jakarta, 28 kg di antaranya adalah sumbangan dari Teuku Markam , salah seorang saudagar Aceh yang pernah menjadi orang terkaya Indonesia.

Orang-Orang hanya tahu bahwa emas tersebut memang benar sumbangan saudagar Aceh. Namun tak banyak yang tahu, bahwa Teuku Markamlah saudagar yang dimaksud itu.

Itu baru segelintir karya Teuku Markam untuk kepentingan negeri ini. Karya lainnya, ia pun ikut membebaskan lahan Senayan untuk dijadikan pusat olah raga terbesar Indonesia. Tentu saja banyak bantuan-bantuan Teuku Markam lainnya yang pantas dicatat dalam memajukan perekonomian Indonesia di zaman Soekarno, hingga menempatkan Markam dalam sebuah legenda.

Di zaman Orba, karyanya yang terbilang monumental adalah pembangunan infrastruktur di Aceh dan Jawa Barat. Jalan Medan-Banda Aceh, Bireuen-Takengon, Meulaboh, Tapaktuan dan lain-lain adalah karya lain dari Teuku Markam yang didanai oleh Bank Dunia. Sampai sekarang pun, jalan-jalan itu tetap awet. Teuku Markam pernah memiliki sejumlah kapal, dok kapal di Jakarta, 

Makassar, Medan, Palembang. Ia pun tercatat sebagai eksportir pertama mobil Toyota Hardtop dari Jepang. Usaha lain adalah mengimpor plat baja, besi beton sampai senjata untuk militer.

Mengingat peran yang begitu besar dalam percaturan bisnis dan perekonomian Indonesia, Teuku Markam pernah disebut-sebut sebagai anggota kabinet bayangan pemerintahan Soekarno. Peran Markam menjadi runtuh seiring dengan berkuasanya pemerintahan Soeharto. Ia ditahan selama delapan tahun dengan tuduhan terlibat PKI. Harta kekayaannya diambil alih begitu saja oleh Rezim Orba. Pernah mencoba bangkit sekeluar dari penjara, tapi tidak sempat bertahan lama. Tahun 1985 ia meninggal dunia. Ahli warisnya hidup terlunta-lunta sampai ada yang menderita depresi mental. Hingga kekuasaan Orba berakhir, nama baik Teuku Markam tidak pernah direhabilitir. Anak-anaknya mencoba bertahan hidup dengan segala daya upaya dan memanfaatkan bekas koneksi-koneksi bisnis Teuku Markam. Dan kini, ahli waris Teuku Markam tengah berjuang mengembalikan hak-hak orang tuanya.

Siapakah Teuku Markam ?

Teuku Markam turunan uleebalang. Lahir tahun 1925. Ayahnya Teuku Marhaban. Kampungnya Seuneudon dan Alue Capli, Panton Labu Aceh Utara. Sejak kecil Teuku Markam sudah menjadi yatim piatu. Ketika usia 9 tahun, Teuku Marhaban meninggal dunia. Sedangkan ibunya telah lebih dulu meninggal. Teuku Markam kemudian diasuh kakaknya Cut Nyak Putroe. Sempat mengecap pendidikan sampai kelas 4 SR (Sekolah Rakyat).

Teuku Markam tumbuh lalu menjadi pemuda dan memasuki pendidikan wajib militer di Koeta Radja (Banda Aceh sekarang) dan tamat dengan pangkat letnan satu. Teuku Markam bergabung dengan Tentara Rakyat Indonesia (TRI) dan ikut pertempuran di Tembung, Sumatera Utara bersama-sama dengan Jendral Bejo, Kaharuddin Nasution, Bustanil Arifin dan lain-lain. Selama bertugas di Sumatera Utara, Teuku Markam aktif di berbagai lapangan pertempuran. Bahkan ia ikut mendamaikan clash antara pasukan Simbolon dengan pasukan Manaf Lubis.

Sebagai prajurit penghubung, Teuku Markam lalu diutus oleh Panglima Jenderal Bejo ke Jakarta untuk bertemu pimpinan pemerintah. Oleh pimpinan, Teuku Markam diutus lagi ke Bandung untuk menjadi ajudan Jenderal Gatot Soebroto. Tugas itu diemban Markam sampai Gatot Soebroto meninggal dunia.

Adalah Gatot Soebroto pula yang mempercayakan Teuku Markam untuk bertemu dengan Presiden Soekarno. Waktu itu, Bung Karno memang menginginkan adanya pengusaha pribumi yang betul-betul mampu menghendel masalah perekonomian Indonesia. Tahun 1957, ketika Teuku Markam berpangkat kapten (NRP 12276), kembali ke Aceh dan mendirikan PT Karkam. Ia sempat bentrok dengan Teuku Hamzah (Panglima Kodam Iskandar Muda) karena "disiriki" oleh orang lain. Akibatnya Teuku Markam ditahan dan baru keluar tahun 1958. Pertentangan dengan Teuku Hamzah berhasil didamaikan oleh Sjamaun Gaharu.

Keluar dari tahanan, Teuku Markam kembali ke Jakarta dengan membawa PT Karkam. Perusahaan itu dipercaya oleh Pemerintah RI mengelola pampasan perang untuk dijadikan dana revolusi. Selanjutnya Teuku Markam benar-benar menggeluti dunia usaha dengan sejumlah aset berupa kapal dan beberapa dok kapal di Palembang, Medan, Jakarta, Makassar, Surabaya. Bisnis Teuku Markam semakin luas karena ia juga terjun dalam ekspor - impor dengan sejumlah negara. Antara lain mengimpor mobil Toyota Hardtop dari Jepang, besi beton, plat baja dan bahkan sempat mengimpor senjata atas persetujuan Departemen Pertahanan dan Keamanan (Dephankam) dan Presiden.

Komitmen Teuku Markam adalah mendukung perjuangan RI sepenuhnya termasuk pembebasan Irian Barat serta pemberantasan buta huruf yang waktu itu digenjot habis-habisan oleh Soekarno. Hasil bisnis Teuku Markam konon juga ikut menjadi sumber APBN serta mengumpulkan sejumlah 28 kg emas untuk ditempatkan di puncak Monumen Nasional (Monas). Sebagaimana kita tahu bahwa proyek Monas merupakan salah satu impian Soekarno dalam meningkatkan harkat dan martabat bangsa.

Peran Teuku Markam menyukseskan Konferensi Tingkat Tinggi (KTT) Asia Afrika tidak kecil berkat bantuan sejumlah dana untuk keperluan KTT itu. Teuku Markam termasuk salah satu konglomerat Indonesia yang dikenal dekat dengan pemerintahan Soekarno dan sejumlah pejabat lain seperti Menteri PU Ir Sutami, politisi Adam Malik, Soepardjo Rustam, Kaharuddin Nasution, Bustanil Arifin, Suhardiman, pengusaha Probosutedjo dan lain-lain. Pada zaman Soekarno, nama Teuku Markam memang luar biasa populer. Sampai-sampai Teuku Markam pernah dikatakan sebagai kabinet bayangan Soekarno.

Sejarah kemudian berbalik. Peran dan sumbangan Teuku Markam dalam membangun perekonomian Indonesia seakan menjadi tiada artinya di mata pemerintahan Orba. Ia difitnah sebagai PKI dan dituding sebagai koruptor dan Soekarnoisme. Tuduhan itulah yang kemudian mengantarkan Teuku Markam ke penjara pada tahun 1966. Ia dijebloskan ke dalam sel tanpa ada proses pengadilan. Pertama-tama ia dimasukkan tahanan Budi Utomo, lalu dipindahkan ke Guntur, selanjutnya berpindah ke penjara Salemba Jln Percetakan Negara. Lalu dipindah lagi ke tahanan Cipinang, dan terakhir dipindahkan ke tahanan Nirbaya, tahanan untuk politisi di kawasan Pondok Gede Jakarta Timur. Tahun 1972 ia jatuh sakit dan terpaksa dirawat di RSPAD Gatot Subroto selama kurang lebih dua tahun.

Peralihan kekuasaan dari Soekarno ke Soeharto membuat hidup Teuku Markam menjadi sulit dan prihatin. Ia baru bebas tahun 1974. Ini pun, kabarnya, berkat jasa- jasa baik dari sejumlah teman setianya. Teuku Markam dilepaskan begitu saja tanpa ada konpensasi apapun dari pemerintahan Orba. "Memang betul, saat itu Teuku Markam tidak akan menuntut hak- haknya. Tapi waktu itu ia kan tertindas dan teraniaya," kata Teuku Syauki Markam, salah seorang putra Teuku Markam.

Soeharto selaku Ketua Presidium Kabinet Ampera, pada 14 Agustus 1966 mengambil alih aset Teuku Markam berupa perkantoran, tanah dan lain-lain yang kemudian dikelola PT PP Berdikari yang didirikan Suhardiman untuk dan atas nama pemerintahan RI. Suhardiman, Bustanil Arifin, Amran Zamzami (dua orang terakhir ini adalah tokoh Aceh di Jakarta) termasuk teman-teman Markam. Namun tidak banyak menolong mengembalikan asset PT Karkam. Justru mereka ikut mengelola aset-aset tersebut di bawah bendera PT PP Berdikari. Suhardiman adalah orang pertama yang memimpin perusahaan tersebut. Di jajaran direktur tertera Sukotriwarno, Edhy Tjahaja, dan Amran Zamzami. Selanjutnya PP Berdikari dipimpin Letjen Achmad Tirtosudiro, Drs Ahman Nurhani, dan Bustanil Arifin SH.

Pada tahun 1974, Soeharto mengeluarkan Keppres N0 31 Tahun 1974 yang isinya antara lain penegasan status harta kekayaan eks PT Karkam/PT Aslam/PT Sinar Pagi yang diambil alih pemerintahan RI tahun 1966 berstatus "pinjaman" yang nilainya Rp 411.314.924,29 sebagai penyertaan modal negara di PT PP Berdikari.Kepres itu terbit persis pada tahun dibebaskannya Teuku Markam dari tahanan.

Sekeluar dari penjara, tahun 1974, Teuku Markam mendirikan PT Marjaya dan menggarap proyek-prorek Bank Dunia untuk pembangunan infrastruktur di Aceh dan Jawa Barat. Tapi tidak satupun dari proyek-proyek raksasa yang dikerjakan PT Marjaya baik di Aceh maupun di Jawa Barat, mau diresmikan oleh pemerintahan Soeharto. Proyek PT Marjaya di Aceh antara lain pembangunan Jalan Bireuen - Takengon, Aceh Barat, Aceh Selatan, Medan-Banda Aceh, PT PIM dan lain-lain.

Teuku Syauki menduga, Rezim Orba sangat takut apabila Teuku Markam kembali bangkit. Untuk itulah, kata Teuku Syauki, proyek-proyek Markam "dianggap" angin lalu.

Teuku Markam meninggal tahun 1985 akibat komplikasi berbagai penyakit di Jakarta. Sampai akhir hayatnya, pemerintah tidak pernah merehabilitasi namanya. Bahkan sampai sekarang.